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“I Kept Failing at My Goal To Read More – Until I Tried This”

Bibliotherapy promises a more intentional way of reading. As a new mother, it became a way back to myself.

In the months after giving birth to my son in March 2024, I found myself in a strange new relationship with the written word. This was, among the many other changes that hit like a hurricane during postpartum, discombobulating – my career to date was shaped by a love of consuming and producing stories. Reading, which had once been the easiest portal out of myself, suddenly felt like an impossible ask. I couldn’t hold a plot in my head or commit to any great length of text, and I definitely didn’t want to read about early motherhood (or parenthood in general) – not because I was in denial, but because I was already living it, all day, every day, in the most immersive way possible.

That was the context in which I came to bibliotherapy: the practice of using books as a therapeutic tool. Lucy Pearson (no relation to this author), the UK-born, Sydney-based freelance writer, bibliotherapist and library curator, describes the practice as “getting a bit deeper into what the person might be looking to achieve through reading,” rather than simply swapping recommendations the way we swap restaurant tips. In other words, it’s not ‘what do you like?’ so much as ‘what do you need?’

That sensitivity – to what a person can actually take in – is what drew me in. In our chat, I explained what I’d been too embarrassed to admit to most of my writer friends: I hadn’t finished a book in months. I wanted something lighter weight (but not fluffy!), short, but not slight. I wanted to feel like myself again, but I didn’t want to be preached at, or instructed in how to mother better, or handed a “journey” narrative with a bow on the end. Honestly, I just wanted reading to feel possible.

Lucy offers four types of sessions for her clients: from The Reading Reset, a gentle introduction to bibliotherapy with a one-off consultation and personalized book prescription, to The Constant Reader, which pairs that session with three carefully chosen titles delivered to your door. For those seeking something more immersive, A Year of Guided Reading offers two sessions and a curated selection of books over twelve months, while The Seasonal Reading Subscription provides quarterly consultations and seasonal reading bundles designed to evolve with you throughout the year.

Her sessions begin with a short onboarding questionnaire and conversation about your reading life – what you’ve loved, what you’ve loathed, what you can’t bear right now, what you’re hungry for. As she explains: “When you’re simply recommending a book to someone, you tend to just ask what sort of books they enjoy… With bibliotherapy, it’s getting a bit deeper.”

Bibliotherapy is also, increasingly, Lucy’s wider practice – she is part reading guide, part cultural curator. Alongside her client sessions, she writes The Literary Edit and curates libraries for homes, hotels, wellness retreats and Airbnbs (a service she launched in 2023 as Libraries Curated by Lucy). Her approach is, crucially, both aesthetic and substantive: she wants shelves that feel “lived-in,” with books you’re not afraid to touch, and choices that have real emotional heft behind them.

For me, bibliotherapy didn’t magically grant me hours of uninterrupted time – nothing can do that in early parenthood. But it did something more realistic, and perhaps more valuable, which was make reading accessible again. It reminded me that I don’t have to conquer a 500-page novel to be in relationship with books. Sometimes the most healing thing is simply to start – with something small, precise, thoughtfully chosen – and let that be enough.

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